Negative Self-Talk
1. I often think negatively about myself.
2. I frequently criticize myself for my mistakes.
3. I struggle to find positive things to say about myself.
4. I feel like I am not good enough, no matter what I do.
5. I tend to focus on my flaws rather than my strengths.
6. I find it hard to believe in my abilities.
Past Experiences and Trauma
7. Past traumas continue to affect how I see myself.
8. I have trouble moving past negative experiences from my childhood.
9. I often feel defined by my past failures.
10. Memories of past abuse or neglect still impact my self-worth.
11. I frequently recall negative events that make me feel unworthy.
12. I struggle to feel valuable because of things that happened in my past.
Parental Influence and Upbringing
13. My parents or caregivers were often critical of me.
14. I felt unsupported by my family during my childhood.
15. My family had unrealistic expectations of me.
16. I rarely received praise or validation from my parents.
17. I was often compared unfavourably to others by my caregivers.
18. I grew up feeling like I was never good enough for my family.
Social Comparison
19. I frequently compare myself to others and feel I come up short.
20. Seeing others' successes makes me feel inadequate.
21. I feel envious of people who seem to have perfect lives.
22. Social media makes me feel like I'm not doing enough with my life.
23. I often wish I could be more like others I admire.
24. Comparing myself to others leaves me feeling dissatisfied with myself.
Achievement and Failure
26. I often dwell on my mistakes and shortcomings.
27. I feel that my worth is tied to my achievements.
28. I find it hard to celebrate my successes.
29. I believe others see me as a failure.
30. My self-worth plummets when I experience setbacks.
Relationship Dynamics
31. I often feel undervalued in my relationships.
32. I tend to be in relationships where my needs are not met.
33. I feel like I am not good enough for my partner/friends.
34. I often worry that people will leave me.
35. I struggle to assert myself in relationships.
36. I feel unworthy of love and affection.
Mental Health Issues
37. I often feel depressed or anxious about my self-worth.
38. My mental health struggles make me feel less capable.
39. I have trouble seeing my positive qualities because of my mental health.
40. My mental health issues make it hard for me to feel good about myself.
41. I frequently feel overwhelmed by negative thoughts.
42. My mental health negatively affects how I view myself.
Body Image and Physical Appearance
43. I am often unhappy with how I look.
44. I feel like I don't measure up to societal beauty standards.
45. My appearance makes me feel less confident.
46. I compare my body to others and feel dissatisfied.
47. I believe others judge me based on my appearance.
48. My self-worth is heavily influenced by my physical appearance.
Work and Career Pressures
49. I feel unappreciated in my job or career.
50. My career success (or lack thereof) defines my self-worth.
51. I often feel like I'm not good enough at work.
52. I worry about not meeting my professional goals.
53. My job performance affects how I see myself.
54. I feel like I'm falling behind in my career compared to my peers.
Cultural and Societal Expectations
55. I feel pressured to meet societal standards of success.
56. Cultural norms make me feel inadequate.
57. I struggle to fit into societal expectations of gender roles.
58. I often feel like I'm not living up to what society expects of me.
59. Cultural expectations make me feel less valuable.
60. I feel judged by society for not meeting certain milestones.
Lack of Support Systems
61. I feel isolated and lack supportive relationships.
62. I dont have many people to turn to for encouragement.
63. I often feel alone in my struggles.
64. I lack a strong support system to help me feel valued.
65. I feel unsupported by those around me.
66. I wish I had more people to rely on for validation and support.
Perfectionism
67. I set extremely high standards for myself.
68. I feel like Im never good enough because I cant reach perfection.
69. My fear of making mistakes affects my self-worth.
70. I find it hard to be satisfied with my accomplishments.
71. I constantly strive for perfection, which leaves me feeling inadequate.
72. I am overly critical of myself when I dont meet my own high standards.
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